Everything I need to know about tolerance I learned at Lake SimcoeBARBARA KAY
When one is living off the generous revenues from capital painstakingly amassed by one’s forebears over centuries, it is disingenuous to pretend it is the fruit of one’s own secular intellectual labours.
Sociologically, my summers recapitulated city life: Instead of a largish brick house, a modest clapboard bungalow; instead of school, camp; instead of study, play. But in formative respects Balfour Beach was also a cultural ghetto, where every family was a replica of my own — white, Jewish, middleclass, with two parents (working father, housewife mother) per household.
Thus, in every season and setting, I was exposed to zero diversity of religion, colour, race, ethnicity or sexuality (that I was aware of ). According to PC playbooks, I should have ended up a powerless victim of the patriarchy and my male peers as sexists, all of us racist, homophobic and — our families being naturally very supportive of the fledgling state of Israel — colonialist to boot.
Never happened. In fact, while feminism and multiculturalism hadn’t emerged to guide us impressionable children on the path to the new Jerusalem, many men and women of my cohort ended up finding career or volunteer self-realization as champions of the very “oppressed” groups they had never known in the flesh. As did many of the equally diversity-challenged traditional Christians I eventually met and befriended at university.
Today a huge number of my former childhood and university friends are zealous apostles of diversity and equity culture, the bellwethers of Canadian liberalism: academics, lawyers, therapists, equity activists, NGO missionaries — even Supreme Court justices.
How did such “correctness” emerge without daily K-12 exposure to dark skin, almond-shaped eyes, hijabs, kirpans and the sight of gay men locked in romantic embrace? Because although secularist ideologues sometimes give that impression, social justice wasn’t invented in the 1960s countercultural movement. Our parents, teachers, clerics and camp counsellors taught us it was right to be tolerant, compassionate and fair, and wrong to be intolerant, hardhearted and unfair, so that when challenged by circumstance, we would — and did — act according to those received values. In the end, an entrenched moral compass counted for a more progressive outcome than growing up amongst actual diversity.
Even in the bland, conformist and homogeneous Canada of the 1950s, decent people didn’t need state directives to feel disgust at racism. Theodore Bilbo was a virulently racist Mississipppi senator, who was known for his appalling public vituperation against negroes (as they were then called) and foreigners. In response, our indignant camp counsellors included in our morning singalongs a paean to immigrants’ contribution to national vigour, whose bouncy refrain we belted out with gusto:
Every morning we also sang a mantra-like ditty:
This was the lite version of city life’s religious instruction, when we learned the more eloquent originals: “Do not do unto others that which is hateful to you,” “love the stranger … for you were strangers” and “ love thy neighbour as thyself.” These commandments and the impetus behind “I’m proud to be me” taught us to respect others as, not instead of, ourselves.
Tolerance, compassion and fairness are still held up as ideals by my PC peers. That is good. But they balk at acknowledging their source. They won’t pay the special homage owed the civilization — their own, Judeo-Christian — that seeded and nurtured their moral outlook, nor will they encourage that homage in people who arrive here from harsher, less humanely visionary societies. That is wrong. When one is living off the generous revenues from capital painstakingly amassed by one’s forebears over centuries, it is disingenuous to pretend it is the fruit of one’s own secular intellectual labours.
Give credit where it is due. We’ve seen too many winters of Western civilization’s discontent with its past, when it’s been all about “proud to be you.” Next Canada Day, let the heirs of Western civilization once again be proud to be us.
Barbara Kay "Everything I need to know about tolerance I learned at Lake Simcoe." National Post, (Canada) 5 July, 2006.
Reprinted with permission of the National Post.
Barbara Kay is a Montreal-based writer. She has been a Comment page columnist (Wednesdays) in the National Post since September, 2003. She may be reached here.
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